What is personal value

The next form of value is personal value. This is your compatibility with another person. A psychologist viewed a bootcamp by Love Systems on t.v. and said that “most of these are tactics to prolong the initial conversation.” The “why” was ignored, but this is the reason. The longer you can interact with someone, the more of a chance you have to demonstrate compatibility with them. Conversely, the longer you interact with someone, the more chances you have to find out you will not like them. For the longest time, this was the problem with “target” pick-up where you had to select a target and begin attracting them. You could find out after talking to the person for ten minutes that you didn’t like them. Mehow has found a solution to this via his “group attraction manifesto” that will also be discussed later. To give it a brief synopsis, it’s a method for making yourself attractive to the whole group so you can decide on a target at a later time.

Another part of personal value that has been getting hit on heavily in the community recently is Inner Game. Part of personal value is your view of yourself relative to the other person. E.g. if you think you are a six and you are dating a nine, you will commit a form of sabotage I call “leaking”, actions or statements you make to her that indicate you feel unworthy of her love. We’ll discuss this as well later.
The last form of value has been what PUAs have been honing in on for the longest time. It’s how you emotionally stimulate someone. To the greater degree you emotionally stimulate someone, (called “Buying Temperature” by pick-up artists), the more of a chance you have to build attraction. There are some problems with just buying temperature alone; you need to be able to build attraction via multiple channels, another one of Mehow’s theories called “Microloop theory”. (Mehow is one of my favorite PUAs and a large portion of my game incorporates elements he introduced into the community.)

Techniques and Tactics:

The various techniques and tactics were pioneered by the most famous member of the PUA community, Mystery. As he studied human interactions, he began to notice common trends and patterns. With experimentation and help from a small group of insiders, he pioneered most of the structure that remains active today. His results were published in The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed

Techniques and tactics has a dizzying array of subsets. Methods of DHVing, DLVing, Phone game, text game, facebook/myspace game, two-set openers, group openers, negging, disqualification theory, peacocking, kino escalation, wing rules, locking-in, proper story-telling, etc. Entire books and audio CDs are structured on this alone.

Calibration:

However, no one has yet figured out how to teach calibration. Largely, this is because calibration is completely relative to the individual and to the person he is interacting with. Calibration is the missing piece in many people’s game, and it is largely what separates PUAs from wannabes. As such, it will be ignored in this book, because the only advice anyone has yet come up with is, “Go practice” to develop calibration.

Mehow currently offers two programs designed to get your calibration up to a whole new level. Check out his Unleashed program for more information.

Story-telling is covered in detail by Venusian Arts "Revelation" and some other books. Unfortunately, there is not much mainstream data on how to tell stories for pick-up, but The Story Factor is one, though it's meant more from a management standpoint.